I think we need to have a national
discussion or discourse to talk about the things which are lost in translation.
As a person born and brought up in the church this quite hits
close to home. I am not the person who indulges in religious talks but on this
one, I feel like the good guy in the clouds really needs to send a few angels
to do civic education because most of His ambassadors down here are really
messing His flock up.
Just like you would go
to a hospital and expect the doctor to be competent and well trained I tend to
think the same standard should apply to these clergymen. Or would you fly in a
plane whose pilot is self-taught or heard a voice tell them they were destined
to be pilots in a dream? Well, I think not. Then why should my religious leader
also not go through some basic training to learn the basics of their practice?
I got carried away and
like I said I do not like engaging in these back and forths coz they never end.
I think communication is
one area where A LOT is also lost in translation. When couples fight, and some
unfortunately end up breaking or separating, if you look closely you’ll find
that it’s just a huge misunderstanding sprinkled with a few droplets of ego.
One says this, the other hears something completely different. And the rift
grows exponentially. You get where I’m going with this, right?
Anyway, what solution does this man of the
cloth bring now that we have identified a problem? Do we run? Do we watch what
was once beautiful now decay in the pits of miscommunication? Certainly not. So
what do we do? We apply the saying dawa ya moto ni moto loosely
translated as medicine of fire is fire (well, that is for my two Russian followers)
So communication (poor)
brought you to this point? Then try communicating. Try saying what you feel,
what you want… How you feel things should go (in a nice tone of course) speak
your mind... don’t hold back words that describe your emotions… ask those
questions… go there… Otherwise those words will pile up and one day your world
will crumble and you will drown in all the words you left unsaid. Just coz they
are acting some typa way don’t mean they stopped loving you come on now Susan
you’re overreacting. Ask what’s up. She didn’t text? How about you call her and
get to know why instead of jumping to conclusions?
Now go do that and don’t
say this clergyman never told you.

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